Sunday, November 3, 2013

never forget where you came from...it makes you grateful for the now



People often say, "Never forget where you came from..." 

My response to that, "Oh, trust me,  I never will."

So the photos above are what I remember of my childhood living in poverty-stricken slums back in my home country, having very little, and surviving on basically nothing. It helps me put things into perspective at how far my family and I have come.  I'm still amazed at how we lived back then. We moved a lot and sometimes it wasn't as bad as this. But it's because of those hardship memories that I've come to be extremely grateful for what I have now.  I often look back at the photos and sometimes browse the web and reminisce so that I can become humbled and thankful. I think I'm blessed to come from such a background and to be able to take all that with me today and say that I  once lived a life like that...taking showers outside, walking around barefooted because we couldn't afford shoes, living in shelters that could be blown away in a matter of minutes. If you had a childhood like that, then you know what I'm talking about. 

Since it's the month of thanksgiving, I thought I'd mention my upbringing and be thankful for all that I have now. I have my health, which is essential to everything that I care for and value, this includes providing for my loved ones. Coming from a country with no "Obamacare" or any type of affordable health care for that matter- it's amazing to me that I have a good bill of health. I have shelter that is secured in the ground with foundation. I don't have to worry that it's going to disappear when the next hurricane or monsoon arrives. I am safe and secure and just that alone is enough. 

I am thankful that I no longer have to bathe outside with just a bucket and some "un-fresh" water. I now have warm bath water and can unclothe in the privacy of my own bathroom. And I can put on clean clothes smelling of Downy laundry freshener and have ample shoes to choose from. 

Realizing that I have a lot more than I did- I whine a lot less, I'm grateful for a lot more, and take life as a blessing whatever the circumstance.